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Pictures and Words

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Welcome Southern Writers Blog Tour readers!

I’ve had an exciting week! I dedicated my blog this week to other Southern Women who are gifted writers, editors, publishers and illustrators. Hence the Pictures and Words theme.

Please check out the short links below to jump around to the interviews posted so far:

MondayAnne Hicks,  founder, publisher, and executive editor of the creative prose and photography journal, moonShine review.

TuesdayAlice Ratterree, Illustrator. Winner of the 2012 SCBWI Art & Writing contest for her Alice in Wonderland Illustration.

WednesdayBeth Revis, New York Times Bestselling author of Across the Universe

Come back and see who is interviewed on Friday and Saturday!

I’m new to being Southern. I moved to Charlotte, North Carolina a little more than a year-and-a-half ago. I came from LA where I enjoyed an eighteen year career in film and television. I was nervous about the cross-country move. But I didn’t need to be.

Something magical happened to me once I moved here. At first I didn’t understand it. I even doubted it. It was a new sensation for me. I became happy. My creativity, through years and years and years of practice, found outlets. I was published. I joined SCBWI. I was a member of She Writes and joined groups within it. I got involved with the Women’s National Book Association. I met fantastic, successful, creative people who were willing to share their time. They expressed kindness and a genuine hope for my success as a writer. They displayed hospitality when introducing me to writers, editors, agents and illustrators. I learned about critique groups. I was urged to get involved. I was told to keep writing. I became part of the community.

It was overwhelming for me. In the past, my mentors could give me as much attention as I paid for. Even though many helped me become a better writer, there was always a sense of competition between writers. If one writer did well it was perceived as a threat to another.

I don’t feel that sense of competition in the South. Actually, I feel that the writers and editors I’ve met want me to be good. That my success (knock on wood)  is a good thing and not something that diminishes their work. The general attitude is the more successful writers out there the better the world. Think of all the readers and people in publishing that good books keep employed!

And the talent here is undeniable. Access to that talent is nothing short of miraculous. I don’t think if I lived in LA I’d have the good fortune of having coffee, lunch or any conversations with the likes of Tracey Adams of Adams Literary. And yet, a friend of mine introduced me to her via email and Tracey very graciously agreed to meet me. And even though I was nervous and a total geek the first few times I met her she still kept meeting me. ( I really wanted her to like me, but didn’t want to talk about my book that wasn’t done because I didn’t want to be that girl who could only talk about herself and I got dorky and nervous and wasn’t even myself for at least six months after meeting her) And now, I get to hang out with her and have drinks and I think she’s freaking amazing. Have you seen the deals she gets her authors? Not only that, Tracey has also introduced me to several successful YA authors, including Kimberley Griffiths Little, who I now consider a good friend. I feel that the Southern Creative community wants those within it to find their people so each individual’s creativity can flourish.

This is what it means to be Southern. When a friend of mine expressed a desire to write a personal essay, she asked me for help. I was very happy to edit her story and give her a few books to help her on her writing journey. People matter to people here. Yes we are all consumed by our family dramas, iPhones, twitter accounts and personal aspirations, but they don’t replace interpersonal relationships.

That’s what being Southern means to me. Thank you to my new friends for your warm hospitality and willingness to share your time and talent. And thank you for turning me on to sweet tea.

I’d love for you to continue on the Southern Writers Blog tour:

People who leave insightful comments on the blog post(s) during the tour will be entered into a random drawing to receive a special Southern Living-themed prize (worth $50) donated by Zetta Brown and JimandZetta.com Author/Publisher Services.

The more blogs you visit and the more comments you make throughout the tour, the more chances you get.

Tour Date: Fri. June 29
Blog Name: Musings & Meanderings: Thoughts on Life and Healing
Blog Owner: Melanie Pennington
Title: “The Flavors of My Childhood”
URL: http://musingsandmeanderings-mlp.blogspot.com/

Tour Date: Fri. June 29
Blog Name: The Full-Bodied (Book) Blog
Blog Owner: Zetta Brown
Guest Blogger: Dera Williams
Title: “Not Your Storybook Southern Belle”
URL: http://fullbodiedbooks.blogspot.co.uk/

Tour Date: Sat. June 30
Blog Name: Delani Bartlette’s Travel Blog
Blog Owner: Delani Bartlette
Guest Blogger: Stacy Allen
Title: “Changing The Past, Inventing The Future”
URL: http://matadornetwork.com/community/delanib

Tour Date: Sat. June 30
Blog Name: Emily Kennedy, Author
Blog Owner: Emily Kennedy
Title: “Southern Gentlemen”
URL:  http://emilykennedyauthor.com

Tour Date: Sun. July 1
Blog Name: Ryder Islington, Author
Blog Owner: Ryder Islington
Guest Blogger: Deidre Ann Banville
Title: “New Orleans Caulbearers”
URL: http://ryderislington.wordpress.com

Tour Date: Sun. July 1
Blog Name: A Penny and Change
Blog Owner: Penny Leisch
Guest Blogger: Trisha Faye
Title: “Change…as the moon goes on shining”
URL: http://apennyandchange.pennyleisch.com/blog

Tour Date: Mon. July 2
Blog Name: Zetta’s House of Random Thoughts
Blog Owner: Zetta Brown
Title: “Texas Tornadoes and Other Memories”
URL: http://zettashouse.wordpress.com

Tour Date: Mon. July 2
Blog Name: Reflections of a Mississippi Magnolia
Blog Owner: Patricia Dorsey
Title: “A (Southern) Life in Poems”
URL:  http://patricianeelydorsey.blogspot.com/

Tour Date: Tue. July 3
Blog Name: A Penny’s Worth
Blog Owner: Penny Leisch
Guest Blogger: NancyKay Sullivan Wessman
Title: “Books & Business & Reality: No magic bullet”
URL: http://pennyleisch.com/wordpress

Tour Date: Tue. July 3
Blog Name: The Novelette
Blog Owner: Laura Gschwandtner
Title: “Southern Living with True Grit”
URL: http://thenovelette.com/blog

Happy Mother’s Day, Mom.

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Mom,

I want to tell you how much I love you. I know you prefer personal matters to remain private. But this year I want to shout it from the rooftop how amazing I think you are. So please, pull up your desk chair and slip on your reading glasses and get comfortable.

Thank you for seeing me. Thank you for giving me the space to express myself. Thank you for letting me get it off my chest when you didn’t want to hear it.  Thank you for supporting me and my style as a child. Thank you for supporting me through tough emotional times. Thank you for laughing with me. Thank you for sitting quietly with me. Thank you for playing golf with me. Thank you for dancing in the living room with me. Thank you for a wicked sense of humor.

I want you to know that I see you too.

I appreciate your creativity. I appreciate your wisdom. I appreciate your talent. I think you should show the world more of it, and so here it is, something you painted for me that I wish to share with the world.

I appreciate your heart. I appreciate our relationship. I appreciate your love of fast cars, convertibles and motorcycles. I appreciate your need for privacy, even though I don’t always go along with it. ;) I appreciate your style. I appreciate the friendships you have. I appreciate your generous heart. I appreciate your teenage-spirit and ideas about love. I appreciate your ability to lighten up the room. I appreciate that we can speak the truth even when it hurts without being defensive. I appreciate your clothes. I appreciate your sparkly things. I appreciate your need for space. I appreciate your feelings about being the new matriarch of the family. I appreciate the love you have for your grandchildren. I appreciate your passion for art. I appreciate your taste in fine dining. I appreciate the fact you don’t enjoy cooking. I appreciate that you make it easy to come home. I appreciate your hugs. I appreciate your kisses. I appreciate your tears. I appreciate that you are a survivor. I appreciate the way your mouth moves when you speak. I appreciate your eyebrows. I appreciate your skinny legs and blonde hair. I appreciate your creativity. I appreciate your dramatic flair. I appreciate your sense of fashion. I appreciate your decorating style. I appreciate your intuition. I appreciate your need to live near the ocean. I appreciate your hugs. I appreciate your gifts. I appreciate the look you used to give me when you thought I did something bad. I appreciate how your raised me. I appreciate how you let me go. I appreciate how you are always there. I appreciate how you love me.

I love you, too. Always.

Happy Mother’s Day!!!!!